Whether you like it or hate it, the experience of having sex for the first is a memorable affair. In fact, that experience has the power to change your perception about physical relationship later on. While everyone has a story or two about losing their virginity, we came across an interesting thread on the popular question-and-answer-site Quora, where a user asked the question “How was your first sex experience?” and the answers were pretty interesting. Here are some of the best Quora responses which can leave you amused as well as shocked:
“My first experience was around 9 years back in class 11 and I still remember it. We were in a relationship for around two years and things were getting naughty in our conversations. Those days, Yahoo messenger was used as a chatting option and mobile phones were merely for talking or for sending SMS. We had discussed having sex sometime and with initial refusals, I had agreed for it. It was an amazing feeling. I felt a bit of pain and bled a little but overall it was so memorable,” wrote Sonia Malhotra.
“I was 15 and had been dating the guy (17) I was “in love with” for about two months. He had told me a week or so earlier that he was ready to have sex (we were both virgins) but I had told him I wasn’t. He was over at my house and all of a sudden, I just decided I was ready. My parents were home so we, and I’ll always regret this part, went to the park next to my house and snuck into the very gross bathroom together. It was so awkward and it hurt so bad that we had to stop. I was bleeding all over and was in a lot of pain,” shared Beth Green.
“I am being very honest and people may find this ‘disturbing’ because they can’t think outside the square and we have now come to accept a kind of false norm that to me is so unnecessary. Any relationship these days between a much younger girl and an older guy is considered taboo and girls are brainwashed to believe that such relationships are illegal, bad, evil and destructive. There is also a huge effort to prime minds that such relationships must not even be thought of. But my experience was very different and has been the most productive thing to happen to me,” wrote Danielle Morrison, who lost her virginity when she was just 13 years old and had sex with a much older man.
“Definitely unforgettable. Especially when it’s with a person whom you have a very strong bond and it’s on your birthday. I lost my virginity to a close friend. We knew each other since we were kids and we shared everything with each other,” shared an anonymous user.
“I don’t know. I never thought of myself as a virgin or as possessing something called ‘virginity’. I was just someone who had never had sex before. I didn’t lose anything when I had sex for the first time. If anything, I gained something! I had sex for the first time with my first partner after we had been together for a year. I had a date marked in my agenda and three months prior to that, I went and got myself some birth control pills. When we finally had sex, it was great. We both had lots of fun,” commented Lexa Michaelides.
“All my friends had sex well before I even thought about it. They talked about it often but I still wasn’t feeling it. Then I met the guy who was going to be my first. He was older and aware that I was a virgin and he never pressured me to have sex, in fact, he was probably the most awesome first lover I could have hoped for–patient, understanding and a teacher. The first time happened organically. It was planned, it was just the natural progression of the relationship,” wrote Alice S. Hattie.